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Treatment of erectile dysfunction


A medical consultation is indispensable to confirm that your erectile dysfunction has a psychological origin before starting the treatment of
erectile dysfunction that we are providing.

Erectile dysfunction is a frequent motive for medical consultation in sexology.

Therefore, you are not the only one to suffer from erectile dysfunction!

Do not worry
The treatment that we are providing will help you solve your
erectile dysfunction.




 

Erectile Dysfunction also known as Impotence is the inability to achieve or maintain an erection stiff enough during sexual relations or any other chosen sexual activity.

Men, who do not have an erection stiff enough to allow the penetration, lose their erection when changes of position occur or within few seconds or minutes after the penetration without ejaculating can be categorized as men suffering from erectile dysfunction.

It is essential to know that erectile dysfunction can refer to total and usual absence of erection to unstable and capricious erections (sexual breakdowns).



 

You have a proper erection if your penis is horizontal when you are in a standing position and if your penis points up toward your navel without manual help when you are in a lying position.

In both cases, you can consider that you have a proper erection if a penetration is possible without manual help. However, it is necessary as well that your erection remain few minutes (more than 2 or 3 minutes) in different positions.



 

A man is suffering from erectile dysfunction if:

He has a proper erection when he wakes up, or during the night or else by masturbation but who has, sexual breakdowns when he is engaged in sexual relations whatever the partner.

He does not have a proper erection when he wakes up, during night or by masturbation

He does not often have a proper erection when he wakes up, or by masturbation and he has more and more difficulty to be able to penetrate his partner or to maintain an erection.

In the first case, erectile dysfunction results from psychological causes and in the second and third cases, it may results from organic or psychological causes.

For organic erectile dysfunction, it is imperative to be examined by a specialist. A clinical exam, Doppler exam of the arteries and veins of your penis, measurement of your hormonal balance and other exams are required. If it is a problem of psychological origin, you will not need to go through these exams.

In fact, the research of the cause of this sexual dysfunction is not always easy and very often, clinical exams investigating an organic impotence, will be normal.



 

In front of erectile dysfunction of organic or psychological origin, the sex therapist or sexologist must always have in mind the important part of the psychological element.

All sexologists and sex therapists know that the psychological and the organic interfere with each other.

The psychological fragility, specially the lack of self-confidence could increase the erectile dysfunction and make it last longer even after the cure of the organic cause.

In every cases, whatever the cause of the erectile dysfunction (organic or psychological), a behavioral treatment alone (for psychological erectile dysfunction) or associated with a medical treatment (for organic erectile dysfunction), will be necessary to restore as soon as possible self-confidence as well as a proper erection.



 

There are number of psychological causes of erectile dysfunction such as:

Performance anxiety and guilt

Stress, tiredness

Boredom with current sexual practices

Partner conflicts

Unresolved issues about sexual orientation


The most common erectile dysfunction cause that many men know at least once in their life is the fear of a new failure at the next sexual intercourse after a first difficulty of erection (for the reasons listed above).

This fear of failure will be responsible of an adrenalin secretion, which is an inhibitive substance of erection and, even more generally, of sexual relation. Besides, because of this fear he will focus on his penis, which will prevent him of having an erection.

The erection mechanism is an involuntary mechanism. To have a proper erection, you should not focus on your sex. Erection will not happen just by your own will and concentration of your mind on something else than an erotic stimulus will prevent the erection from happening.



 

Overall, the couple will have to deal with deterioration of affective relation and intimacy.

Erectile dysfunction or impotence generally leads to a lack of self-confidence, feeling of depreciation of his own image, which can leads to depression for a man. For his partner it can lead to a feeling of guilt because her desire seems to be responsible for his failure.

Eventually she will be afraid of lacking attraction and she will reject her partner to avoid these repeated failures and the arguments that follow.

In every sexual problem, the lack of communication, which will appear within the couple, may lead to separation.



 

The erectile dysfunction treatment or impotence treatment from Dr Michel SERRE, our sex therapist, is of a behavioral type and includes advices and exercises of gradually increasing difficulty.

You will learn, step by step, to restore an erotic and sensual communication with your partner, to face positively and progressively stressful situations, to control your fear of failure, to gain back your self-confidence as well as a positive behavior of "winner".

You will also learn to relax and not to focus on your sex in order to get back progressively a proper erection that will satisfy you and your partner.

So if your sexual problem has a psychological origin (see above), we are convinced that our help, alone, will enable you to overcome your erectile dysfunction problem. If your problem seems to have a medical origin (organic origin), your doctor will help you and our complementary help will be also particularly useful to you.



 

The price of the erectile dysfunction treatment file (non-medical and written in english) is 10€.
(»$ 13, »£ 7)

To thank you for your order, you will also receive
the file of 14 pages:

 "How to improve your sexual life and

solve the problem of difference

of desire between two partners".

 This file is very interesting for a couple, because it allows to each partner to understanding its own sexuality and the one of its partner.

You have the possibility of directly download this complete treatment file (or receive it by email). To do so, click on the button "to order" and, you will be redirected on the server of our partner site:

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