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Answers to common questions about cunnilingus:

1- I am starting my sexual life and there are terms that I do not know such as cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus or cunnilinctus is an oral caress of the woman sex.

2- What are the difference between cunnilingus and cunnilinctus?  

These two terms are synonym and both are used equally. Actually, it is more the term of cunnilingus, which is used.

3- Since a while, when I am kissing the sex of my partner I can smell a really bad odor which comes from her vagina. My partner washes herself twice a day though???  

A really bad odor which comes from the vagina can be due to a tampon which has been forgotten or to a vaginal infection with corynebacterium. This infection is not serious but your partner needs to see a genealogist to get a treatment for it.

4- My partner gave me my first cunnilingus 2 days ago. Do we have to protect ourselves for this practice? Is there any risk of transmitted diseases? Thanks for your help.

The risk of being infected with sexual transmitted diseases during cunnilingus is quite low. The most important risk is herpes, which can be transmitted through mouth contact during oral sex. Ask your partner if he already had a cold sore. The famous little spot on the lips is, in fact, a cold sore.  

5- I am with my boyfriend since several months and we have satisfying sexual relations. However, I have a mental block with cunnilingus. He already proposed it to me telling me that he didn't expect anything back. Is there any way to get rid of this mental block?

The only way to get rid of this mental block is not to rush things, to allow your partner to bring his mouth closer and closer to your sex and to stop when this becomes to agonizing for you. You will see that progressively, you will accept that he gets closer to your sex.  

6- I like to swallow the liquid that my wife produces in order to lubricate. Is it dangerous and normal? My wife is healthy and her STD tests are positives.

There is no danger in swallowing the slippery fluid that your wife produces during her excitation if the tests for aids and other STD are negatives because if your wife is "healthy" her tests should be negatives and not positives.

7- During cunnilingus, do I have to introduce my tongue into the vagina?

No, you do not have to. Cunnilingus can be performed without introducing the tongue into the vagina; however, the penetration of your tongue into the vagina of your partner can give her more pleasure.

8- When my partner is very excited, I cannot feel anymore her clitoris under my finger.

During sexual excitation, the clitoris retracts under the hood, and it is often not anymore perceptible under the finger. However, you need to keep on caressing it in order that your partner reaches clitoral orgasm.

9- My partner told me that during cunnilingus, it takes me 17 minutes to reach orgasm. Is it normal?

Yes, it is normal. The average duration of cunnilingus is about 20 minutes before the women reach orgasm.

10- How can we protect ourselves from STD during cunnilingus?

There is dental dam for cunnilingus, which will avoid STD transmission. If you do not have any, you can use a condom cut open.  

11- I am 42 and during cunnilingus practice when I am almost reaching orgasm, I am having urine leak. It is really embarrassing. What can I do?

I advise you to do perineal rehabilitation in order to develop the muscle of your perineum. This rehabilitation should decrease these urine leaks.