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QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
 
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Answers to common questions about female homosexuality,
lesbian sexuality:

1- I was told that homosexuality was a sexual deviation. Is it true?

No. Homosexuality was removed, since few years, from the classification of deviations and sexual perversions. Homosexuality is now considered as a normal sexual practice although being still in the minority in comparison with heterosexuality.

2- I am a girl and sometimes I have the impression to be attracted by girls. I would like to know what I could do to know if I am a lesbian??

It is very difficult for me to answer to your question, because if you are young, it can only be an occasional sexual attraction. It is, in fact, some different sexual experiences, that will direct you toward heterosexuality or homosexuality.

3- Is there a gene of homosexuality?

No, homosexuality does not have a genetic origin; there is no gene of homosexuality.

4- I am a young woman of 20 years old and I dreamt that I was making love to a girl, am I homosexual?

No, because this kind of dreams is very frequent among the young women or young men. At this age, the sexual drive is very strong and is expressed in the dreams or in the phantasms and this does not mean that it is the reality.

5- How can we know if we are going to become homosexual or not?

There are no evident signs to know in advance our own sexual orientation. In fact, it is very often after some sexual relations with both sexes that we discover our true affinity. However, some homosexuals say that their homosexual tendencies exist since a long time whereas others discover it only late in their life.

6- I am 20 years old, I am a girl, and I am often looking at girls in the street. When I am looking at pictures of naked girls, I do feel something. However, I know that I want to share my life with a man and my sexual relations with men have always been satisfying. Am I homosexual?

 According to what you say, I do not think that you are homosexual as your sexual relations with men have always been satisfying. Maybe, it is just sexual phantasm, or the desire of new experiences. If you decide to have sexual experiences with women, you will find out if you prefer men, women, or both. Bisexuality does exist.

7- I am a girl and I am with a girl since one years. We get on very well on the sexual plan but I never managed to reach orgasm when she caresses my clitoris, whereas I do reach it when I masturbate… I would like to know how I could reach orgasm when she touches me.

The fact, that you can reach orgasm when you masturbate, and that you cannot reach it when she touches you, might be due to her caresses. Her caresses might not be the one you would like. You should seriously talk to her about it in order that you show her which caresses you like and the ones you do not like. You also need to let yourself go to the pleasure that she gives you with her caresses and not want too much to have an orgasm because it is the best way of not having one at all.