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QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
 
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Answers to common questions about first intercourse and
first time sex:

1- I am 25 years old and I did not ever have a sexual relation. I come from a society where hymen has a really big importance. I love a man but we cannot get married for the moment. Is there a way to have a sexual relation, with penetration, without hymen tearing?

No, but it is important to know that some women have a thin and elastic hymen which will not be broken during the first sexual intercourse. For these women, the first sexual relation will not make them bleed. Therefore, a woman who does not bleed during the first sexual relation can still be virgin! In these societies, where hymen is really important, women have sometimes recourse to anal penetration until their wedding

2- During my first sexual intercourse with my girlfriend I did not bleed, how is that possible?

The bleeding that occurs during the first sexual relation is due to the hymen tearing. Many women have a loose hymen, very supple and not really thick, so often there is no hymen tearing during the first sexual intercourse, thus no bleeding. This means that a woman can be virgin and not bleed during the defloration.

3- What are the best conditions for the first sexual relation?

The best conditions are in a semi-dark room where you will not be afraid to be disturbed. You and your partner must feel comfortable and safe about it.

4- Hello, I would like to know if girls bleed a lot during the first sexual relation.

No, in general, it bleeds just a bit and it is rare to have a heavy bleeding. Do not worry. 

5 - I am 19 and I am still virgin. For me, it is not a problem because I have been single for a long time and I never had serious relation. However, I am now with a 25 years old boy and he knows nothing about that. I am obviously going to tell him but I do not know how to bring this subject with him. Besides, I can imagine that a boy can find me desirable when I am naked, I never been naked in front of a man. I am completely lost because I really want to have sex with my boyfriend.  

At 19 years old, many girls are still virgins. You are right, it is important to talk to him about it in order that you feel more comfortable the first time you will have a sexual relation with him. Besides, knowing it, he will know that he has to gentle with you the first time. If you do not feel comfortable naked in front of him, you can have your first sexual relation in the dark.