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Answers to common questions about male sexual desire:

1- My girlfriend does not understand that I want to make love to her 5 to 6 times during the night.

This is not abnormal if you are very attracted to her sexually. Some men have a very strong libido (sexual desire) so, a need of frequent sexual relations. In general, this occurs only at the beginning of a new sexual relation because the desire decreases with time and the sexual performance too! 

2- I would like to know if the size of the penis is important in order that the partner gets some pleasure. Moreover, when does the penis stop growing?

No, the size of the penis is not important, what is very important is to listen to your partner, to caress her well and not to ejaculate too quickly. The size of the penis is definitive at the end of puberty.

3- Is orgasm always synonymous with pleasure in man?

NO, because painful orgasms exist, especially in men who have spinal cord injuries (in some type of paraplegia).

4- With my husband, we do not agree on the way to educate our child (he is 3 years old) which always leads to conflicts between ourselves. However, we get on quite well, and until then everything was ok even at the sex level. Since our arguments become more and more frequent we less want to make love, him as much as me. We do love each other and I would like to know if these arguments could have consequences on our sexual desire?

All arguments, in a couple, can have consequences on the couple sexuality and, especially on sexual desire. You should try to solve this educative problem with the help of pediatrician or psychologist, in order to avoid that your arguments spoil more and more your sexual life and leave definite marks.

5- Tell me how to give pleasure to a woman.

Firstly, never do to her what you would like her to do to you, because women are different to men. Women prefer caresses on all the body whereas men prefer caresses localized at the sex level. So listen to her. Secondly, take your time, do not penetrate her too rapidly and do not ejaculate too quickly. These two notions, among others things, will help you to become a perfect lover.